I'm going out with a guy online and he's really sweet and I love him. The thing is, we have a 3 1/2 age difference, but it doesn't bother either of us. (I'm 14 1/2 and he is 18.) I don't think he is a predator, but I'd like your thoughts or opinions.
- He's very very sweet and nice, but not overly nice
- He's a gamer and I've played with him on psn before
- We do webcam or mic chats nearly every day
- I've seen his family and his friends over the webcam
- He has a Facebook with all his friends from school
- He loves Spongebob, Pokemon, and penguins :] (he has a big Spongebob blanket hanging on his wall)
- We have cybered before but BOTH of us regret it and we're never doing it again
- He never pressures me to do anything
- We say I love you and call each other honey and stuff but he made sure it was okay with me first
So my question is, do you think he is a predator, or am I safe? I don't think he is, because when we first talked he wasn't asking for sex or anything, and we started going out after about 5-6 months after we first met. We've been going out for 4 months, and I'd hate to have my heart broken if I find out he's a predator. Thanks!|||Be careful and wary. He does sound like a good guy, though. He sounds sweet and caring. But again, with the age gap, be careful.
I'm 19, and there's this girl I talk to who lives pretty far away. I've known her for 3 years, and met her a few times. We've never dated, but it's great to have someone to talk to who might be younger than you, but is somehow on the same level =]|||He may be a predator. He may not be.
Regardless, he's way too old for you. I'm sorry. :/
And it's sort of unhealthy for this 18 year old boy to be talking everyday to a 14 year old girl on webcam and "mic chats" everyday, all things considered, he seems obsessed. Things could get crazy if you every break it off with him... so it's kind of bad that you got involved with the first place. :[|||Have him come over to you鈥檙e house or go on a group date. Proceed with caution there are a lot of weirdo鈥檚 out there. Btw the age difference is a little much, if you really like him try keeping it platonic until you鈥檙e a little older. That way if it鈥檚 meant to be you will end up together.|||he can be a predator that depends on the kind of relationship he thinks you are having. did the two of you agree you are dating for a serious relationship or...
Well the truth is i will not know because i have not seem him and you have said things that suggest he is not|||Talking to some random predator online does not count as "dating", honey. I mean, I like spengebab and penjins and pakeymans (my fave is Mudkipz - gahdayum!!), but you don't see me going around and trying to pick up 14-year old girls on the internet. That's just sick.
By the way, wanna cyber later? I have an effing spengebab blankie.|||well, personally i think that 3 and a half years is a big difference. And seriously 18 years old and still likes pokemon. That is the dumbest thing i've heard. I think he is probly a video game no life loser|||nothing over the interenet is safe...and he should know better not to have a relationship with a 14 yr old, when he's the adult. If you've seen him before, then you can make a safe bet that he's not a 30 yr old creep, but he could be an 18 yr old creep,....just be careful|||well i guess if you've actually physically seen him and his family he's straight...but he is a lil old, and older guys only want one thing from a girl 90% of the time
and pokemon? spongebob?
u sure he's not the 14 year old?
also...i dont no of may long distance relationships dat work like dat =/|||that is a big chance you have to take.. think about it though what is an 18 year old doing with a 14 year old. why cant he find poeple around his own age. last thing . could you imagine bringing him home to your family and telling them where you meet him.
goodluck...|||Sounds like he is really nice and you have an awesome man! Since you have seen his family over the web cam, he probably isn't a predator. but you should be careful cause you are only 14 and he is 18. So be sure nothing gets too serious.|||from experience i'll tell you not to go through with it. Every guy I've met like that is completely opposite of what they say they are. And your 14 what the hell are you going out to meet an 18 year old. All he wants is sex|||He is a PREDATOR!!!!! If he is 18 and he knows you are 13. my advice stay away and look or wait for some one you know from school. You are too young. Dont believe everything he tells you. I really think it could be dangerous.|||he doesn't really sound like a predator to me. he's just not eager enough. i wouldn't be worried, but i'd definitely be careful, because this internet place can be scary and unpredictable|||I dont think he is either. I think you are safe.But be careful. He is 18, thats against the law but if you really like him stay with him. He sounds like a good guy but be careful though
Good luck hun!! :)|||he's a predator|||your an idiot whore.|||Your 14%26amp;1/2 and he's 18..... He should be arrested!
HE'S A PREDATOR!!!!!!!!!!!|||you don't know anything over the internet|||You sound like you are happy with this man, but still... My advice is to play it safe until you get to meet him in real life|||An 18 year old cybering with 14 year old??? That's illegal and he's sick....|||He's just a nerd. Not a predator. Don't let him know where you live and just enjoy his attention.|||i'd still be very careful.....|||The fact that he is 18 and you are 14 are a pretty clear sign he is a predator.
Where is Chris Hansen when you need him|||you're way to young for him!!! just let it go.|||if you've seen his family... I don't know. Have you actually ever met him in person...? This is a tricky one.
Just be careful would be my advise...|||yes he is. he is 18! that is illegal! don't see him!|||i don't think his a predator i mean if his not askin for u know!|||uuuhhh dont be dumb little girl....you shouldnt be doing that anyways your like 14 and there is no need for a "boyfriend" plus isnt that what they teach you not to do in school?...and if in fact you think you need one try someone your own age because that is illegal and he is a stupid guy. im sure he is all nice and sweet but he is more than likely messing with you or he really is that bored with his life that he webcams with a 14 year old. im sure he is not a predator ahha he sounds like a nerd..plus your not "going out" if you have never even touched him....or met him in real life for that matter. id stop.|||The age is not a problem. I am 20 and my guy is 23, so we are 3 years difference. But is it kind of different when you match up a 14 with a 18 -- but do what you see is right.
However, you have to go with him to a public place -- that's a MUST. Never go to dark or empty areas. Just at least to be more safe and secure, also comfortable. That's the main thing. And just have fun on your date. But just be aware of what I said.
PS. I love Spongebob, I got his sheets, a big toy/pillow, towel, and my laptop is covered with a big Spongebob cover, haha. He's cute.
Anyway, good luck gorgeous.|||First off you should know that by law he is considered a sexual offender aka a predator because he is 18 and you are underage so I think its illegal unless your parents sign some kind of consent form but im not 100% sure.
This doesnt mean that he is actually a predator that is going to hurt your but it is very unusual for and 18 year old to be dating a 14 year old.
Your best bet is to date people your age until you are 18 or older.|||my experience is dont its dangerous..
because predators are people you would never think to do it.... sometimes ppl u rly trust even. and dont think it cant happen cuz ud be surprised o how much it rly does happen.
but i have a question for u?? how the hell do u cyber? like how is that possible. k i understnad u both get undressed and say things and mayb work on ur self but thats rly all u can do. ur just someones watching u....
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